Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Graduation 2011

Finally I managed to graduate today :)
Though I am not very excited before going the stage, I am so nervous till I forgot what I did in the stage but I know I was walking to chancellor to grab my cert.

Usually people tends to take studio photo during their convocation but for me, I am not so excited to take any studio photo. Partly is because bao bei is managed to capture some very nice photo that is better than studio photo a day before the convocation. To me, they are on par or even better to the outing photo by so called professional.

Still havent taken a look on the convocation photo today coz bao bei and I are tired till fall asleep now. I know my parents are eager to have a look on those photos but will let them have a look afterwards. :)

Thanks bao bei, Love u ^_^

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

相处之道

from http://cleanlyandfree.blog.sohu.com/84907944.html
当你决定和新男朋友在一起的时候,请你一定要把过去的感情深深藏在心灵的一个角落,不要时常拿出来炫耀,不要时常拿出来对比。你爱前任,是因为你已经适应了和他在一起的感觉,已经依赖他了,并不能说后来者不如他。
    当一个男人能包容你的过去,心疼你曾经为感情付出的伤痛的时候,默默承受你对感情的敌视,鼓励你走出过去阴影的时候。请你心怀感激,感恩之心,只有深爱一个人,才能让对爱情自私的人有如此举动,没有人有义务为过去的不相干的人的行为埋单,没有人有义务为自己女人的前一段感情负责。

    当你和男朋友有矛盾的时候,当他为了不让你生气,默默伤心,低头不语的时候,不要像个斗胜了的雄鸡一样穷追不舍,因为那一定是你做错了,如果是他做错了,他一定会第一时间过来道歉的。他这样做只是为了维系这份感情不受到伤害而不去和你争吵,找你辩解而已。

    当你一再让自己男朋友伤心的时候,不要以为男人有义务默默地,永远承受这一切。人都是有记性的。就好像一个花瓶,打碎了就算粘起来,也依然有裂痕。两个人的感情就好像一杯水,每一次伤痛都要从杯子里倒出一些水,每次甜美,幸福,又都能给杯子里补充一些水。当水空了,感情也就走到了尽头。

    当男朋友为你付钱的时候,请你不要只沉迷在得到一件新东西的欣喜中,应该知道,男朋友是不仅让你高兴,也是让你爱他多一份。因为花出去的每一分钱都是他辛苦劳动换来的,都值得珍惜。

    当男朋友暂时不能陪在你身边的时候,你应该努力自己过的开心幸福一点,为在外边的男朋友祈祷,祈祷他能早日平安归来。你要知道,男朋友也希望能每天25个小时都能陪伴在你身边,看到你美丽的容颜。但是男人有更多的责任,要为了事业打拼要为了让你过上更好的生活而努力。你的男朋友并不完全都是你的,作为男朋友的同时,他还是父母的儿子,还是公司的员工,还是同事的伙伴。当他出差时,默默帮他打理好行李,当他回家看望父母的时候,帮他买一点礼物,当他和同事在一起的时候,分享他讲给你的快乐瞬间。当他不能陪伴在你身边的时候,请你坚信两个人的心是在一起的,不要因为心理暂时的空旷而去想别的男人,多想一想在一起的时候得美好时光,多憧憬一下他回来的时候得欢聚。

    当一个娇生惯养的男朋友,为了你刷锅刷碗,洗菜做饭的时候。希望你能体谅他的辛苦,他也是忙了工作忙家务的。能帮忙搭把手就搭把手。男人不希望别的,是希望看到自己爱的人能品尝到自己的努力成果,是喜欢两个人为着同一个目标努力的感觉。
 
    请记得用同样的标准评价自己,还有男朋友,记得,己所不欲,勿施于人。如今这个社会是男女平等的社会。男朋友可以包容你的缺点,能够容忍你犯错误,是因为他爱你,而不是他根本无视你的错误,你的缺点。约会时记得准时,男朋友的时间也是宝贵的;男朋友迟到时,不要太过埋怨,因为他们心里比你还要召集。迟到时,记得心里要有那么一点点愧疚,虽然男朋友嘴上说"宝贝,不要着急,路上小心"的时候,他心里还是有那么一点点自私的希望你能快点到来。

    努力提高自己,努力让自己优秀起来。也许男朋友不要求你会这个,会那个,但是他心中依然希望自己的女朋友能够超过所有的人,当他看到你每一份进步的时候,他一定会比你还高兴。他不希望你是一个酒肉女朋友,虽然他心中希望用自己的努力让你不需要做任何事情,幸福的躺在洒满阳光的床上晒太阳^_^

    当男朋友有什么做的不好的时候,请你一定不要太挑剔,更不要因为和前任对比而挑剔。因为你要相信,人无完人金无足赤。当你对他的某些行为看不惯的时候请你要或直接或委婉的提出来,不要生气地争吵,因为争吵除了能让人失去理智,是不能让人改正缺点的。

    
    当看到男朋友的房间很乱,不整洁的时候,请你或者耐心帮他整理好,或者提醒他整理好。男人不如女人细腻,不如女人爱干净是肯定。不拘小节并不代表他不会有美好的前途,并不代表没有出息。

    当男朋友打游戏的时候,在他身边默默地关注着,或者因为不感兴趣而走开。打游戏并不代表玩物丧志,其实到了工作的阶段,又有了女朋友,很少有人会再因为游戏而玩物丧志。他也许只是找回大学阶段的感觉,也许只是在另外的世界找到成就感,也许只是希望和同事们有更多的共同语言。

    当男朋友在雨中把伞撑到你头上,为你遮挡风雨的时候,记得把他搂紧,人都是肉长的,他只是认为你比他更重要,并不说明他喜欢淋雨。

    当男朋友接到电话时,起身离开到外边说时,请你不要紧张,他只是尊重你,并没有什么东西要隐瞒。

    当男朋友为你干这干那得时候,不要以为这一切都是理所应当,请心怀感激地说声谢谢,虽然他嘴上说不用客气,但是心里是非常想听到的。

    当你因为生理的原因,脾气不好,发癫的时候,请你相信,你的男朋友心里是心疼的,是非常希望能够替你忍受这一切。当他心甘情愿充当你出气筒的时候,当他心甘情愿为你洗内衣的时候。请你在那几天过后,对他好一点,男人也是有脾气的,也是怕脏东西的。
 
    当他在外边和别人喝醉了的时候,请你不要对他发脾气,不要骂他,骂他他也听不到不是。他喝的那些酒里也许就有别人敬你的,他喝下那些酒的时候嘴上是挂着笑的啊。

    当你们两个人思想不一致的时候,请你相信,人的思想是会不一样的,不要觉得有看法不一样就是不合适,就是走不到一起。求同存异是必需的,他不会强求你接受他的观点,他也不希望你把自己的观点强加给别人。
    看到这里,请你不要紧张,好的男朋友是根本没有要求达到上边所有的要求。只要你心里觉得正确就好了。好的男人在家里是没有棱角的,因为他已经小心的收起来了,不愿伤害到你而已。


呵呵,看来我是时候检讨一下了... ... 嘻嘻,爱是双方面的付出,不是一方付出另一方只管享受。
最近学会了很多 :)

Monday, November 21, 2011

Missing You

Eddie 说的,爱情不是简单的东西。两年、四年、六年,不是对的人总还是会曲终人散。所以不管多么爱也好,总要留那么一点点余地给自己。将来会发生的事,没有人会知道。

你是个好人,我不会要放手。可是未来的路还很长,需要面对的也很多,所以还是顺其自然好点。一起努力,希望真的能牵着你的手一起白头偕老。

近来你不在,开始体会到坎坷的大道其实让人走得有点辛苦。每天,熬夜等你上线,心里有很多很多话要跟你说,想跟你说我今天被蚂蚁欺负、今天骑脚踏车差点失控、今天肚子响了整个下午而pizza hut 的网上服务失灵了、今天我买了很喜欢的饼干、晚餐买寿司时店员无故算我半价…… 等到你上线了,聊的却是今天好玩吗?天气冷吗?今天这里下雨了,你今天的电邮有…… 凌晨4点了,快去睡吧!

每次跟你说晚安,其是眼泪都要流出来了。
一个月,就只是一个月,我能的:)

Sunday, October 2, 2011

:)

this time we'll face it together.

It's going to be hard again, financially, emotionally, but together we will overcome this.
Hand in hand.

Love
is all we need

Sunday, July 3, 2011

放心喔


放下了
这次真的是放下了
没有后悔也没有挽留更不会再有万一

看不开,只会把自己绑死
放不下,只会让自己缠死

故事结局不论是好是坏
我在里面不会是位角色
所以其实没有必要想那么多
因为我的存在不会改变什么

那狭窄的遂道,我摸索了好久
才发现原来永远不会有出口
转身
看着光,看着你
笑着地、再也没有顾虑地

接下来的旅程
只想和你手牵手地走下去

我可以答应你,不会在往后看

Monday, June 27, 2011

Missing you...

5 hours without you...
I am counting... Dear I am desperate for you...

Sunday, May 1, 2011

五月一号 天晴

看着我们去年旅行的照片,真的很想念宝贝的傻笑,已经很久没有看到宝贝很很很兴奋的样子了。

之前答应了宝贝要在假期时一起去旅行,但因课业而无法陪宝贝,真的感到很内疚。

现在看着宝贝不是很开心的样子令我有点伤心。

五月,去年就是在这个月,我的宝贝正式接受了我,我们正式开始!我真的感到很开心,或许我不会用语文来表达,但,我真的很爱你,宝贝 。看着你傻笑的样子,我真的很幸福:)。

我希望这个五月可以和你一起去野餐,和你一起去看戏,一起去uni hall 吃早餐,一起去sunday market, 还有很多很多很傻的事 想很你一起做。

我还很希望六月的假期,可以和你一起去泡温泉和滑雪。

我会加油给你幸福的,宝贝。

我爱你^_^

俊成上

Saturday, April 9, 2011

April...

Hectic weeks ahead!

Tests (more like exams), assignments, labs, projects, etc.... But let's do it together :-) Less dates, less shopping, less drama and more study time, more group meetings and more reports.

Gambate o, especially the one doing his final year, ;-p Long way to go even after your graduation, but time is always at our side 'cos we are both willing to wait for the best.
Right?

Our journey has been hard yet full of fun and sweet moments. Congratulation to both of us for been through the obstacle, and struggles that we had are nothing more but bonds that hold us even closer than ever. In my heart you're already the best, so pamper me no more please ;-p blek...

I love you.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Bad guy is sick, hehehe
Time to bully him

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Friday, January 28, 2011

Some going to finish his internship soon! :p

And... one more week to go :)

Saturday, January 15, 2011

though i know u r kidding just now about wanna dump me
but i stil feel sad to hear it haha
may be my EQ really got prob recently

Thursday, January 13, 2011

因为是万物之灵,虽以拥有了一颗比任何生物都复杂的脑袋
每一个人都有他们的特点,他们自己的观点和意见,以及处事方式
或许他的语气和处事方式不小心伤害到你
但我觉得他并不是故意的
他本身因该也很难过,只是不知如何开口
姐弟通常会有很多争执,但都只是一下子而已
一觉睡醒,又再是新的一天,宝贝和你的弟弟又再乐咏咏的一起玩乐
^_^
believe yourself and him also

I will be back earlier today, later have a chat together:)
feel guilty as when you needs me, I was sleeping
But believe me, your bro needs some time to grow up
before he can manage his own emotion and the ways he deals with things =P
bao bei has to be jiayou helping him ^_^
and don be down
I will support u all the time and forever, bao bei
:)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011


最近竟然会被Facebook上的星座爱情资料吸引住

慢慢读
判断它们说的准不准确
消化一些浪漫的语句

如果那些话是你口说的
应该会很幸福
=]

Monday, January 10, 2011

:) miss my bao bei alot today
and just wanna wish u a happy sweet day for u
know u have a tiring day for ur house cleaning
=P I will help u do ur cleaning and ur settlement next time when u back to nz
so that u wont be so pitiful
have fun ^_^

Thursday, January 6, 2011

7/1/2011

Woke up around 630am this morning to finish my packing and prepared myself for the coming trip back to ohakune, I was not very sad as last time as I knew I am going to go back to christchurch after a few weeks. This morning, Bernard came over to fetch me and after that, he fetched chin feng and we went over Mac D to have our breakfast. They then accompanied me to the airport and we did have a chat until the boarding time.

Throughout the journey from christchurch to wellington, and finally to downtown backpackers, I felt refreshing and I guessed it was due to the good weather with nice breeze in Wellington. Too bad, I spent my whole afternoon lying on bed and napping until 3 or 4 pm. Very funny to tell that the couple in my room is so eager and they were having a live show there. It made me so embarrassed and I tried my best to leave the room as soon as possible once they went to the toilet.

As the backpacker is near to harbour, there is very strong wind blowing to my direction once I left the backpackers. It was very hard for me even to take my steps forwards. I spent my time wandering in willis st, manners mall, courtenay place and the places around those. I was very keen to have malaysian meal as my dinner until the moment i reached the restaurant and saw the words " we are closed " as they were having dinner. I was then wandering around and finally walked my way into nando's for my lovely dinner, with a quarter pieces of chicken accompanied by chips and cokes. After my dinner, I was heading back to my backpackers and currently onlining in the mac d nearby to my backpackers as they provide free wifi.

To be continued :) and plan to call shirley and my family later for some chat ^_^
Safe journey back to Ohakune :p

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

leaving chch soon again.... bu she de...
one ++ month in ohakune
gambate
^_^ blek

Monday, January 3, 2011

wah... today i was planning to wake up at 10am in order to watch harry potter in the Hoytes. I set my alarm clock at 10 am also. Unfortunately, I woke up at 1030am just now and switched off my alarm clock. Since I knew I cant make it for the movie, I was lying on my bed again planning to have a short nap. Shocked, I woke up at almost 1am. I might go for some shopping to buy something later.

Anyway..... wanna say GOOD MORNING to my sweet bao bei
^_^
fun fun day ahead for u

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Back from shopping in northland mall, feel like wanna buy alot of stuffs, but i know now is the time for me to control myself, and stop spending money like water
^_^

First post in 2011 ^_^