
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Graduation 2011
Though I am not very excited before going the stage, I am so nervous till I forgot what I did in the stage but I know I was walking to chancellor to grab my cert.
Usually people tends to take studio photo during their convocation but for me, I am not so excited to take any studio photo. Partly is because bao bei is managed to capture some very nice photo that is better than studio photo a day before the convocation. To me, they are on par or even better to the outing photo by so called professional.
Still havent taken a look on the convocation photo today coz bao bei and I are tired till fall asleep now. I know my parents are eager to have a look on those photos but will let them have a look afterwards. :)
Thanks bao bei, Love u ^_^
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
相处之道
from http://cleanlyandfree.blog.sohu.com/84907944.html 当你决定和新男朋友在一起的时候,请你一定要把过去的感情深深藏在心灵的一个角落,不要时常拿出来炫耀,不要时常拿出来对比。你爱前任,是因为你已经适应了和他在一起的感觉,已经依赖他了,并不能说后来者不如他。 当一个男人能包容你的过去,心疼你曾经为感情付出的伤痛的时候,默默承受你对感情的敌视,鼓励你走出过去阴影的时候。请你心怀感激,感恩之心,只有深爱一个人,才能让对爱情自私的人有如此举动,没有人有义务为过去的不相干的人的行为埋单,没有人有义务为自己女人的前一段感情负责。 当你和男朋友有矛盾的时候,当他为了不让你生气,默默伤心,低头不语的时候,不要像个斗胜了的雄鸡一样穷追不舍,因为那一定是你做错了,如果是他做错了,他一定会第一时间过来道歉的。他这样做只是为了维系这份感情不受到伤害而不去和你争吵,找你辩解而已。 当你一再让自己男朋友伤心的时候,不要以为男人有义务默默地,永远承受这一切。人都是有记性的。就好像一个花瓶,打碎了就算粘起来,也依然有裂痕。两个人的感情就好像一杯水,每一次伤痛都要从杯子里倒出一些水,每次甜美,幸福,又都能给杯子里补充一些水。当水空了,感情也就走到了尽头。 当男朋友为你付钱的时候,请你不要只沉迷在得到一件新东西的欣喜中,应该知道,男朋友是不仅让你高兴,也是让你爱他多一份。因为花出去的每一分钱都是他辛苦劳动换来的,都值得珍惜。 当男朋友暂时不能陪在你身边的时候,你应该努力自己过的开心幸福一点,为在外边的男朋友祈祷,祈祷他能早日平安归来。你要知道,男朋友也希望能每天25个小时都能陪伴在你身边,看到你美丽的容颜。但是男人有更多的责任,要为了事业打拼要为了让你过上更好的生活而努力。你的男朋友并不完全都是你的,作为男朋友的同时,他还是父母的儿子,还是公司的员工,还是同事的伙伴。当他出差时,默默帮他打理好行李,当他回家看望父母的时候,帮他买一点礼物,当他和同事在一起的时候,分享他讲给你的快乐瞬间。当他不能陪伴在你身边的时候,请你坚信两个人的心是在一起的,不要因为心理暂时的空旷而去想别的男人,多想一想在一起的时候得美好时光,多憧憬一下他回来的时候得欢聚。 当一个娇生惯养的男朋友,为了你刷锅刷碗,洗菜做饭的时候。希望你能体谅他的辛苦,他也是忙了工作忙家务的。能帮忙搭把手就搭把手。男人不希望别的,是希望看到自己爱的人能品尝到自己的努力成果,是喜欢两个人为着同一个目标努力的感觉。 努力提高自己,努力让自己优秀起来。也许男朋友不要求你会这个,会那个,但是他心中依然希望自己的女朋友能够超过所有的人,当他看到你每一份进步的时候,他一定会比你还高兴。他不希望你是一个酒肉女朋友,虽然他心中希望用自己的努力让你不需要做任何事情,幸福的躺在洒满阳光的床上晒太阳^_^ 当男朋友有什么做的不好的时候,请你一定不要太挑剔,更不要因为和前任对比而挑剔。因为你要相信,人无完人金无足赤。当你对他的某些行为看不惯的时候请你要或直接或委婉的提出来,不要生气地争吵,因为争吵除了能让人失去理智,是不能让人改正缺点的。 当男朋友打游戏的时候,在他身边默默地关注着,或者因为不感兴趣而走开。打游戏并不代表玩物丧志,其实到了工作的阶段,又有了女朋友,很少有人会再因为游戏而玩物丧志。他也许只是找回大学阶段的感觉,也许只是在另外的世界找到成就感,也许只是希望和同事们有更多的共同语言。 当男朋友在雨中把伞撑到你头上,为你遮挡风雨的时候,记得把他搂紧,人都是肉长的,他只是认为你比他更重要,并不说明他喜欢淋雨。 当男朋友接到电话时,起身离开到外边说时,请你不要紧张,他只是尊重你,并没有什么东西要隐瞒。 当男朋友为你干这干那得时候,不要以为这一切都是理所应当,请心怀感激地说声谢谢,虽然他嘴上说不用客气,但是心里是非常想听到的。 当你因为生理的原因,脾气不好,发癫的时候,请你相信,你的男朋友心里是心疼的,是非常希望能够替你忍受这一切。当他心甘情愿充当你出气筒的时候,当他心甘情愿为你洗内衣的时候。请你在那几天过后,对他好一点,男人也是有脾气的,也是怕脏东西的。 当你们两个人思想不一致的时候,请你相信,人的思想是会不一样的,不要觉得有看法不一样就是不合适,就是走不到一起。求同存异是必需的,他不会强求你接受他的观点,他也不希望你把自己的观点强加给别人。 |
Monday, November 21, 2011
Missing You
Sunday, October 2, 2011
:)
Sunday, July 3, 2011
放心喔
Monday, June 27, 2011
Sunday, May 1, 2011
五月一号 天晴
Saturday, April 9, 2011
April...
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Thursday, January 13, 2011
每一个人都有他们的特点,他们自己的观点和意见,以及处事方式
或许他的语气和处事方式不小心伤害到你
但我觉得他并不是故意的
他本身因该也很难过,只是不知如何开口
姐弟通常会有很多争执,但都只是一下子而已
一觉睡醒,又再是新的一天,宝贝和你的弟弟又再乐咏咏的一起玩乐
^_^
believe yourself and him also
I will be back earlier today, later have a chat together:)
feel guilty as when you needs me, I was sleeping
But believe me, your bro needs some time to grow up
before he can manage his own emotion and the ways he deals with things =P
bao bei has to be jiayou helping him ^_^
and don be down
I will support u all the time and forever, bao bei
:)
Monday, January 10, 2011
Saturday, January 8, 2011
Thursday, January 6, 2011
7/1/2011
Throughout the journey from christchurch to wellington, and finally to downtown backpackers, I felt refreshing and I guessed it was due to the good weather with nice breeze in Wellington. Too bad, I spent my whole afternoon lying on bed and napping until 3 or 4 pm. Very funny to tell that the couple in my room is so eager and they were having a live show there. It made me so embarrassed and I tried my best to leave the room as soon as possible once they went to the toilet.
As the backpacker is near to harbour, there is very strong wind blowing to my direction once I left the backpackers. It was very hard for me even to take my steps forwards. I spent my time wandering in willis st, manners mall, courtenay place and the places around those. I was very keen to have malaysian meal as my dinner until the moment i reached the restaurant and saw the words " we are closed " as they were having dinner. I was then wandering around and finally walked my way into nando's for my lovely dinner, with a quarter pieces of chicken accompanied by chips and cokes. After my dinner, I was heading back to my backpackers and currently onlining in the mac d nearby to my backpackers as they provide free wifi.
To be continued :) and plan to call shirley and my family later for some chat ^_^
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Monday, January 3, 2011
Anyway..... wanna say GOOD MORNING to my sweet bao bei
^_^
fun fun day ahead for u